How many guys here solicit blowjobs on the grounds that it's not really sex, babe, it's just foolin' around? And how many guys expect to get blown long before they would ever go downtown on a girl? And do you think this stuff is common in society at large? How about this: how would you feel if your female SO cheated on you by having intercourse exclusively, as opposed to exclusively by blowing her beau? One last one. Do you think that the widely documented phenomenon of teenage girls being expected to service their boyfriends orally (among other things) is in any way related to this?